What I learned from 6 weeks travelling.

People are powerful

I watched elderly travellers and people with mobility challenges tackle cobbled streets and endless steps. A gentleman with a walking frame smiling through Pompeii. That moment alone cured my husband’s knee complaints.

Lesson to self: I am stronger and more capable than the excuses I sometimes make.

If I do not know what people are saying about me, I do not care

Not understanding the language was liberating. I did not scan conversations for signs someone might be annoyed or judging me. I just lived.

Lesson to self: I know my intentions. I apologise when needed. The rest is not my business.

Notice the little things

Butterflies. Moss on a stone wall. Pebbles in the road. The taste of gelato. The colour of water. Music drifting down a laneway. My senses paid attention.

Lesson to self: Be just as curious at home. Joy is already here if I slow down long enough to see it.

Everyone has a story and we have far more in common than we think

We met a Secretary of Defence from a European country, a former US Judge, and someone married to a Rock and Roll Hall of Fame'r. I only learned this after great conversation and laughter.

Lesson to self: Treat every person with genuine interest from the start. Titles are irrelevant to connection. My imposter syndrome can take several seats.

Great service stands out

I experienced the full spectrum of service. The cultural and language differences sometimes made it hard to judge. When it was great, it was unmistakable. It also reminded me that brilliant staff do not automatically become brilliant managers.

Lesson to self: Support new leaders so their passion and capability translate into management success. Find a mentor or coach when stepping up.

These lessons are coming home with me. I hope one of them sticks with you too.